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Endless Paradise
And I'm Shizuka, International Radio Host.
I'm Shizuka.
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It's a show where you and the listeners talk toeach other and make as many people happy aspossible.
The goal is to make 10,000 people happy.
We've reached 10,000 in the last episode, so we'regoing to do our best.
Now, we have another message today, so I'll readit to you.
Thank you.
Today's message is from someone who got marriedand started a new life.
Wow, congratulations.
Congratulations.
This is from a woman in her 30s named Miho.
I got married last year.
My husband and his parents have different tastesin food, so I'm a little troubled.
My husband used to cook before we got married, andhe didn't say anything at the time.
But after we got married, he started to say,
For example, the seasoning of miso soup is thin,the way tofu is cut is different, and there aretoo many ingredients.
I want to make a meal that suits my husband'staste, but I'm troubled when I think about health.
When I go to my husband's parents' house, Isometimes make food.
Even there, they say the taste is thin.
Is this the basis of my husband's strong taste?
I sometimes make meals with my husband's mother,but when I season it, he says,
It doesn't taste good.
To be honest, I have a strong taste and I'mdesperate to eat it all.
So it seems like he's having a hard time.
I can't say that the taste is too strong.
It's probably the state of a newlywed who cooks athome.
Shizuka, what about when you got married?
I had it, too.
So I understand this question very well.
I don't think it's a one-word answer.
When I got married, I cooked for the first time.
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I lived with my parents.
I'm proud of it.
We lived in a separate house.
We didn't really live together.
But we ate together.
That's when I decided to cook for the first time.
My family grew up on a big plate.
My mother loved big plates.
So I made a big plate and ate from it.
That's my style.
That's how I made it.
With a big plate?
Yes.
My mother-in-law was a really nice person.
She was very kind.
She said to me,
Shizuka, we don't serve big plates in our house.
We serve small plates.
We serve at least eight small plates.
She was so nice to me.
But I was really hurt.
My mother-in-law cooked for me.
She cooked for me like a country girl.
I felt like I was denied.
I felt so lonely.
I still remember it.
You grew up on a big plate.
You grew up on a big plate.
I think you made a mistake in the way you walked.
I think that was the timing.
Yes.
First of all, I want to thank my husband.
First of all, I want to thank my husband.
He didn't season it well.
He didn't season it well.
He didn't cut tofu well.
He didn't cut tofu well.
Tofu was cut into small pieces.
Tofu was cut into small pieces.
But I want to thank him for everything.
I wanted him to understand that.
And what I wanted Miho-san to understand is that
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I think he's a foodie.
He's in his thirties.
I think he's in his thirties, too.
It's possible he's the same age as me.
I think it's possible.
Shintaro-chan is still in his twenties,
but I think he's a hard worker and a foodie.
I want him to understand that I want him to do alot of things.
I have a light taste, too.
Oh, really?
Yes, but I used to have a very strong taste.
And what made me have a light taste was pregnancy.
Oh, that's where it changed.
Yes, it did.
When you're pregnant, you have to raise a child inyour own belly.
You can't say, I like this, I like that, I hatethis, so I don't want to eat it.
When I had a pregnancy addiction,
the first thing the doctor told me was to have alight taste.
I used to eat a lot of strong flavors,
and that's how I got a pregnancy addiction.
And that's how I got a very light taste.
But usually, people who like to eat
or people who like delicious food have a strongtaste.
That's true.
So I like a light taste, so I make it light.
And I say that.
I make it with a light taste,
so if you think it's light,
please add soy sauce or salt.
Oh, I think that's the best answer.
Did it come out?
Did it finally come out?
No, it came out until now.
Did it finally come out?
No, but Miho-san, this is true.
You're struggling to eat it because it's sostrong.
Yes, that's right.
Yes, that's right.
So I want you to keep saying that
making it light is for your health.
And like I just said,
if it's light, add soy sauce or salt to make itstrong.
That's what I want you to do.
And your mother, your husband's mother,
is a strong taste.
If you say,
this doesn't taste good,
your mother will be a strong taste.
That means you're changing it to a strong tastewith salt or soy sauce.
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It's hard to make a strong taste thin.
You have to increase the amount.
You have to increase the amount.
So I think it's up to you to make it from a lighttaste to a strong taste.
By all means, since it's a light taste,
why don't you say,
make it to your liking with soy sauce and salt?
That's true.
If you say that,
you're thinking about yourself.
You're thinking about your body and making itlight.
Plus, you can eat it to your liking.
There are two good things, right?
Yes, I think so.
That's good.
That's a good answer.
I'm glad.
I think it's a good answer.
I'm glad. Thank you very much.
Your mother, your husband's mother,
will tell you,
at home.
At that time,
do you think it's better to make it stronger?
Only at that time.
Only when I bring it.
Only when I bring it.
Make it a strong taste and bring it.
Bring it to your husband's family style.
Bring it.
The next day,
I wonder if there was nothing.
That's right.
Put soy sauce on the table.
Only at that time.
I'll do my best.
I wonder if I can eat it.
That's right.
At that time,
you were worried about yourself.
Then Shizuka,
you were told there were eight kinds, right?
That's right.
What did you do at that time?
I did my best.
Did you make eight kinds?
Yes, I did.
Did you go home?
But I was told.
I was told,
please tell your mother.
Then,
I was able to communicate with her.
I didn't have any problems with my wife.
At first,
you didn't have a match,
so you came out.
That's right.
You didn't have a fight,
but you were able to communicate.
That's right.
And you were happy to be told,
please tell your mother.
I was happy.
I said,
can you tell my mother
because I'm a rabbit?
I think we'll get along.
That's right.
We'll go out together one day.
We may become a family like that.
I think it's good.
After all,
a house and a house
live together.
If you live together,
there may be differences like this.
That's right.
Shintaro said a lot of good things before.
Well,
when I hear this,
I think it's a little good.
Maybe I'm waiting for that kind of mountain.
I think it's a little far away.
There are things like this.
But after all,
communication is one of the keys to solvingproblems.
I understand that.
That's right.
And I think you're very open to cooking.
Little by little,
little by little,
I'll start with a strong taste.
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Little by little,
little by little,
little by little,
I think it's good to make it thinner.
Oh!
A little closer.
That's good.
At first,
I'll do what he thinks.
Maybe.
I don't think this husband is listening.
I don't think so.
I don't think so.
I don't think so.
I don't think so.
Little by little,
little by little,
I'll make it thinner.
That's right.
Then,
the environment will change with age,
so it should taste good.
That's right.
So,
the taste may change to your favorite taste.
That's right.
While trying various things,
I hope you'll get along with your family.
I hope so.
2 out of 10,000,
3 out of 10,000,
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Wife,
Husband,
Miho-sama,
Miho, a 30-year-old woman,
has solved her problems.
So,
3 out of 10,000.
That's it.
One more step.
In this way,
it doesn't matter how many years have passed sinceyour new life,
and it doesn't matter if it's recent,
but if you have any concerns or want to talk tous,
please send us an e-mail.
The topic we're looking for now is
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