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Welcome to Kevin's English from podcast gas gas gas.
Right here we go. The classic. Yes. Echo opening. Yes. Thank you. That's great. By the way, that's perfectly executed. Yeah. Thank you.
I have a topic I want to talk about with you. All right. It's it's it's about know me Kai.
No, I want to talk to you about know me guy. All right. So I think there's all so many human factors in one know me Kai.
OK, um, like it really shows who you are. Oh, yeah. Right. Like I.
A lot of my personalities become very apparent in know me Kai.
OK, like especially in like groups, groups know me guy.
Right. In circle circle like like huge number, huge number like 30 people know me guy.
OK. Right. If that happens, like. Do you like know me guys in 30 people?
Actually, I don't like I don't like I want to talk about how about how about like I don't either. How about like.
Like. Sorry, that was not correct. I like that kind of know me guy, but I really, really bad at.
That kind of know me guy. That's correct for me. What do you mean? Like I'm not hating know me guy like with 30 people.
It's not something that I don't don't like or never want to go. But I really, really bad at this know me guy.
Bad at as in like what? Like bad at speaking, but like. Having conversations.
That I guess I get you. I understand. I understand. Like that. That makes sense to me. Right. Like I understand that.
Um. One thing I hate about owning the know me guy is the, um, Korozoku.
Maniac, OK. The time after you get out of the first place like know me guy.
Ends. Yeah. And then people go out, right? Go outside and then they stay. Yeah. We don't say like the time when you're standing in the streets in front of the know me guy store.
Yeah. And most people, the majority of people have no idea what's going on. Right. Just waiting for some leader to lead to the next step.
But they're just standing there. Yeah. Like it's. I don't know if this is. Relatable guys, listeners, I don't know, like, but this always happened in my circles know me guy.
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And, um. It's a this is a little little thing. These are little things like it's not like a huge trust kind of thing, but it's a little thing that I want to share with that guy.
I thought this could be relatable to many people. So I was curious. Yeah. Like you go out and then like you you you you finish it.
Know me guy. And then people go get get go out the store. Right. And it's not usual to just it's not usual for everybody just go home.
It's like people go outside and wait for something. Right. What are they doing? Yeah. Like I always hated that time.
OK, so having you see me like leave I did. Yeah. Like I think I'm going to leave you out. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That always happens.
OK. Can you tell me how the psychology behind what's going on?
Well, you know, they I think the majority like wants to go to the second know me guy or have a little more conversation with each with each other.
OK. But. You know. You know, they're a little bit drunk. Yeah. Ready? Yeah. Have not that much, you know, like the motivation and what, you know, logicalism.
Uh huh. So there is no one who tried to propose to let's go there. Let's go to the second know me guy place.
They're just thinking about like almost nothing, but want to go to the second place.
But but I have no idea where to go. Like that. I can't stand it. I don't know why I just can't stand it.
Maybe it's because I've never had I've never been drunk so much.
Or you've never been told that you want to go to the second know me guy.
That's also a thing because I don't understand it. Have I talked about this in the past? I don't understand the Nikkei-me concept.
We've not talked about that. OK, let's talk about the Nikkei-me concept. Yeah. I've been questioning this through my whole life.
OK. You know how know me guy happens and then like, OK, Nikkei-me go yo.
Why? Why Nikkei-me? Why not stay in the first place? Why? Why? Tell me why.
Why do you want to go to the Nikkei-me when you could have just stayed in the first place?
Right. You don't have to pay for the second otoshi. You don't have to.
Like you already you know, like you're already comfortable.
If you're uncomfortable, like if it's like too cold, if it's too hot, the employees are very disrespectful.
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The food tastes bad. That makes sense. If you to go on a different store.
I understand. But if the first one's OK, what the fuck would you want to go to a second one?
Why not stay in the first one? All right. Yeah. All right. Tell me. Tell me why.
Like there's several reasons for me. OK. Like I understand that the moving to the second place or third place even.
You know, the first place should be, you know, mainly eat something. OK. Like have dinner. OK.
Like rather than nomikai, it's having dinner together and a little bit drink a little bit. OK. Right.
And after finish having dinner, like, you know, one course dinner or one plate dinner. OK.
Then that, you know, that restaurant is for dinner. OK. Right.
So let's go to that to that, you know, drinking place, which is a Izakaya place.
OK. To drink. You understand that? I understand. OK. I understand what you're saying.
OK. So, you know, let's go to that drinking place because this is a place to have dinner together.
OK. So next to the Izakaya place and drink something. Izakaya place is a little bit louder and talk about, you know, loudly,
three things loudly, like a little bit partyish nomikai. All right. Let's finish nomikai, two hours of nomihoudai maybe.
I'll finish. Then I have one or few people that I want to talk more like time, share time and talk about each other like deeply.
So let's go to that like bar, a little bit quiet, quiet and we can talk, talk like face to face a little bit deeper.
Oh, let's go to that the secret bar. Yeah, let's go to that. And like that. That's, you know, changing the system.
OK. So I have several questions. So if it was like a like a saku no nomikai, OK?
So you're saying that the first store, the first restaurant, yeah, shouldn't have like the nomihoudai place.
It would make sense for you to for it to be like everyone would just have like a like a like a cup or two or three of alcohol.
And that's it. The second place would be like nomihoudai. That would that make sense? Yeah. Oh, really? Sorry.
Wait. So. I think a lot of people on their first restaurant, they have the nomihoudai.
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Yeah. But for your logic, it wouldn't. Well, you can have nomihoudai at the first restaurant, but it's it's, you know, it's the main objective is to fill up your stomach.
Right. Right. Oh, shit. Oh, yeah, it's true.
But it's I'm not thinking about saku no nomikai, but just. Like friend, like, OK, like, let's go, like, let's go.
Right. Right. But if it was saku no nomikai, the first place that we go is a kaya.
It's already a kaya. It's already a kaya. Yeah. So a mix of the first place and the second place.
So there are a little bit food and also drinking package.
OK, so if it was your friend, it would make sense to have the dinner like the actual eating objective place and then the drinking objective place.
Right. And then the deeply conversation kind of place. Right. Right. And after maybe go home together, maybe.
OK, how about like. How about like. OK, yeah, you're talking about saku no nomikai.
Oh, no, no, no. That. But like, how about like. How do you have the energy to go all three places? Like for me.
Three hours is probably like the maximum energy I can. I could put out. Yeah. On the table when I'm like with people.
OK. Yeah. Like three hours. Like that plan takes five hours. Right. Even more maybe. Even more.
Like, don't you want to go home? Well, me personally, I do. OK. It's quite tiring.
But. You know, at the first. Like. Speaking with same one guy for five hours is really maybe tiring.
But if you can change the people from you speak with. It's a little bit better for you.
Yeah, it's a little better. It's a little better. Yeah. So the at the first nomikai, it's two hours.
And we sat on a table and talk about that guy and this guy and this guy and these girls and have two hour conversation.
Yeah. Two hour conversation. And I had a little bit, you know, it's done. Like it's done with them. We've talked everything with them and no topics to talk with.
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And let's change the place. OK. And you know, the change the seat allocation and meet with new new people.
A little bit fresh. Like, you know, that could be happen. And right. If you find someone that I want to talk with specifically.
Let's speak together. Let's all be true. Like. Does that make sense?
That I think is just very inconvenient. Like, that's just right. And efficient. Right. That's so inefficient.
Like I don't I can't wrap my head around the idea of like if you want to talk to somebody just like.
Why not ask that person to go dinner together? Yeah. That's how I approach things.
If I want to speak to somebody like I would just personally direct message that person and be like, right. Hey.
Let's go out. Let's go eat. Yeah. That makes sense. Like nobody would be like the place where like.
We we all collab. Right. The the atmosphere of the collaboration of the whole. Yeah.
That's how I interpret the group. No, we can't. Yeah. And like. That wouldn't change if even if you go to a different is a guy.
Like it wouldn't. Yeah. Like you're tackling on a one on one basis. Right. Yeah.
I'm interpreting it as like a like a you're speaking to everybody. I'm speaking to everybody.
We're all having like right. Like we're all having like this one group conversation. Wow. That's tough.
Well, yeah, it is kind of tough. Yeah. Oh, you know, I know it does just one by one or one by two or a group.
Even if we are numbers of group. But, you know, it's a little bit individual.
I'm talking about like the the the the circle no me kind of the OB of our die.
OK, if we were to have one right now, the our. Well, our die or die. OK. I mean, our year, our year.
Right. OK. I don't think I don't think it would it would probably be like what?
Like 10 people. OK. 10 people probably come and they're all we all know each other.
We're all comfortable with the other. I think if. Hmm.
So you think you will like speak to to everybody? Yeah.
Like right. At least half a group. OK. It might split into two groups.
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Right. And I think the half a group would just be like a whole conversation as in like a fight.
Yeah. I think all five would like have like the one conversation like one would talk and the other four would like listen and have like a collaboration.
Right. Collaboration. Right. Right. That's interesting.
Like me, I speak to one or two people.
So, yeah. Yeah. Does Karaoke make sense to you for in groups?
We talked about it in the YouTube channel. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. You said no. Right.
Well, you can. I can. I mean, I understand going karaoke after no Micaille with with some people to, you know.
To get to know each other. But it doesn't have to be a karaoke. Definitely.
Yeah. Yeah. That's right. Yeah. Well, yeah, I just want to get that out of my head.
Yeah. I want to talk about that. That was a good topic.
I feel like I can go further down. Right. But like I still have to clear things up a little bit.
Yeah. I think we might still be like on a different page. I don't feel like I think we have a different right.
Right. Joking and chuckle. Right. Right. All right. Well, let's clear this up on the phone.
All right. Thanks for listening again, guys. Bye bye.
