義両親との関係性
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Hi, じゃあ今日はお便り会です from my email inbox!
お便りフォームから頂いているお便りを紹介させていただきます。
えぇ、まずラジオネームもにゃさん keeping myself busy, so I'll read it.
せんせいがた、いつも配信あります。 Sensei-gata itsumo haishin arigatou gozaimasu、
3月10日開で取り上げていただいた baby youhinについて質問したものです。
Shin-san, thank you for telling us about baby products and what we should be aware of.
In the end, we stopped using the travel system and bought our own.
Oh, I'm sorry.
I feel like this is the right answer.
I'm happy that I was able to meet a girl on April 9th,
and that I was able to spend the rest of my life with her.
I think it was April 27th.
Misaki is called Misakichi by Aoi-chan,
but she calls her daughter Satsukichi.
Because her name is Satsuki.
Oh, that's cute.
Satsuki is the name of the store manager.
Oh, that's true.
I thought I would thank you if I listened to the latest episode.
But it was too late.
I listened to the live stream about the cafe,
and I wanted to go, but I couldn't.
So I went back to my parents' house and read all the maids.
It was so hot that I couldn't go out,
so I'm glad that there are many episodes of teachers going out.
I'm looking forward to the live stream from now on.
So, Omonya-san, congratulations!
By the way, when did you get this?
I don't know when I got this.
It was a little while ago.
I was born in April.
I think it was when I calmed down a little.
Oh, that's right. It's been almost three months.
In the end, it was different for each person.
If it was good, it was good.
I'm glad you thought it was the right answer.
Congratulations!
As expected, you can't collaborate with a new teacher.
It's a little difficult.
There may be a disagreement.
That's right. It's a little easy, isn't it?
Congratulations on your hard work.
If you have any questions for your senior, C-san,
please ask them in the letter form.
Satsukichi. I also called my daughter Tamakichi.
Why do you want to add kichi?
I want to add it at the end.
I see.
No, no, no, I'm glad.
Then I will introduce the next letter.
Radio name.
Kisetsu-san, the tea is delicious.
I drank this tea yesterday.
Oh, really?
This tea is called Tokibi tea in Hokkaido, isn't it?
It's an image that comes up a lot in Korean food, but I wonder if it's the same.
I wonder what it's like.
It smells like corn.
That's right.
Then it's the same as Tokibi tea.
Is it the same?
Maybe.
Hello, I'm always having fun.
Actually, I'd like to ask for your opinion, so I'm sending it.
赤ちゃんの世話と悩み
It's going to be long. I'm sorry.
I got married last year and had a baby this year.
I was able to be a good parent, but I'm worried that I'm often confused and irritated.
In the recent episode, I got a bump on the cheek of a three-month-old baby.
I've been doing a lot of research, and it's important to wash and moisturize the baby well.
I'm using baby vaseline to moisturize the liver.
I got a call from the Ministry of Health and Welfare, saying,
Vaseline is banned in Europe because it is inflammatory.
I've been told not to use it anymore.
I've had a good experience with that once, and I've heard that moisturizing the baby is very important.
The medical profession is self-healing, and it's a vaccine denier, a hospital denier, and a drug denier.
There are doctors who can't explain the side effects after using it, so don't trust them.
Western medicine is not good because it doesn't grow self-immune diseases.
Don't take me to a hospital.
I've been denying everything but self-healing.
義両親との距離感
To be honest, I don't understand why you don't support a child who's having a hard time with a disease.
And Google's AI answer is,
Don't trust doctors when you're an amateur.
In this way, we often deny the parenting policy and the way of parenting that we and our spouses are investigating and worrying about,
and often put pressure on our own ideas and ways of doing things.
In the future, we will have to move to Gijikka, Kyushu, because of our work.
I'm afraid of spiritual ideas and a little religiousness.
I'd like to point out that Gijikka doesn't interfere with us too much,
but how do you talk to each of your spiritual parents when you want to ask for such a sense of distance?
I'm a spiritual parent who doesn't listen to what I say.
It's a stance that says,
Your thoughts are absolutely right. Why don't you understand?
Husbands can't say strongly and suddenly because they're too good or bad or too kind.
Just think about the future. I don't want to be in a relationship.
How to get along with your spiritual parents. How to get a sense of distance.
How to refuse when you don't like something.
I'd appreciate it if you could tell me what you're doing.
That's the letter.
It's hard.
It's really hard.
It's been three months since I had the same baby as Monia.
I've been getting letters from people in that environment.
How about each of you?
I'm a spiritual parent who doesn't interfere at all.
To be honest, I don't have much of a problem with that.
Everyone has their own way of raising their children.
It depends on the time period.
That's right.
It's different now than it was in my parents' time.
My spiritual parents said,
It's better to drink left and right after taking a bath.
Can't you drink the juice yet?
As a parent raising a child,
I'm sensitive to what I'm told.
It's not a big deal now.
But I feel like I'm old.
I'm a little aggressive towards the outside world.
So I understand how they feel.
Even if I'm a modest spiritual parent,
If I'm told something so negative and even a little suspicious,
I know I'm going to be very angry.
I know too much.
How did you deal with it?
It's like,
It's different now.
I want to take it all in.
That's all you can do.
Even if I'm told I don't have to take it all in,
I take it all in.
That's how I feel.
I feel like I should take it all in.
I've never raised a child, so I don't know.
But the people around you who are good at it,
You have a great ability to take it all in.
I don't think it's a good idea to take it all in.
I think I've been doing my best to raise my child.
I believe this is the right thing to do.
That's how I raised my child.
It's not a good idea to resist it.
It's definitely going to be a parallel line.
By the way, do your parents have something like that?
Yes, they do.
What do they say?
When I was a kid, I was like this.
Actually, my parents say it without hesitation.
That's right.
My parents say it a lot.
Even now.
I'm like, is it okay to eat such a snack?
Drink juice in the morning.
They say that a lot.
I take it all in.
Even your parents?
I take it all in.
I don't want to deny my parents' upbringing.
That's right.
I don't deny my parents' upbringing.
You don't accept it?
I don't accept it.
I don't deny my upbringing, and I don't deny it.
That's amazing.
That's a lot of power.
What kind of acceptance do you have for your parents?
義両親との距離感
You don't say, fufufu, right?
Fufufu.
But I'm fufufu.
Are you the same?
I'm fufufu.
You have a different attitude.
I don't want to hurt them.
Because I always think I don't know when I'll be gone.
Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.
Is that strong? You don't want to hurt them?
That's right.
If you're a woman, you're the same in terms of upbringing.
Even though you graduated, you're particular about it.
I think you have a sense of pride.
You have a sense of pride.
If you're denied something, you'll be very sensitively hurt.
And you have a sense of pride that you raised them.
I think you'll feel proud that you're their senpai.
That's right.
And that's not wrong.
There's no right or wrong.
There's no wrong or wrong.
It's very natural.
But maybe there are some good sides to it.
Yes, yes.
In fact, you have a healthy husband.
That's right.
There are some people like that.
It's difficult.
It's difficult.
But it's amazing that this person will go home someday.
That's right.
If you're going to live in a very close place,
you probably won't be able to get close to them.
I'm not worried about that.
If you meet a teacher who you can trust,
you'll be able to talk to them.
If you get along with that teacher,
you'll be able to talk to them.
But I don't want to talk to them too much.
I feel like we can't understand each other as much as we do.
I feel like we can't understand each other as much as we do.
I've heard that you've had someone look at your birth certificate.
I've heard that you've had someone look at your birth certificate.
Isn't that a lie?
I don't want to say that it's a lie.
I don't want to say that it's a lie.
I don't want to say that it's a lie.
Is Wasebin tolerable?
I don't have to believe it's a lie.
But I'm sure you won't believe it.
I don't mean to go into detail.
It's just something I can accept.
I'm not saying that I don't have Wasebin,
I'm just saying I don't have that.
That's what I was told.
I think there's something like that.
Yes, yes.
It's kind to the body.
It's like peeping at additives.
There's something like that.
Yes, yes.
Because you told me.
I said, I'm using it.
You told me, so I bought it.
But if you ask,
once you ask,
I feel like more and more advice will come.
Isn't it in the first place to deny medicine?
Well, yeah.
Is it the same with vaccines?
You can't say,
I got it from a plant on my own.
You can't say that.
There may be something suspicious in it.
I'm trying to raise a weak child.
On the contrary.
What do you mean?
According to this literature,
it's quite a wasteful feeling, isn't it?
That's right.
Like not using it.
That's right.
There's a pretty strong idea.
I feel like there's a vaccine.
It's like somehow receiving it.
It's difficult.
How to keep a distance.
If it's physically far away,
I can do it at all.
It's not easy.
If it's a child who's been raised to some extent,
I still can't help it.
Even where I can't reach my eyes,
I feel like I can do a lot with this will.
That's right.
Even if you take him to the hospital,
you don't have to say you took him.
I think you don't have to report it.
You don't have to say,
I got a bump.
But if you send me a picture, I'll be worried.
Don't say anything.
Don't say anything.
Don't say anything.
Don't say anything.
義両親とのコミュニケーション
You don't give him the material.
It's like worrying.
No, it's not worrying.
It's like you want to pick on him.
It's like the content comes out.
Learn the skill of receiving.
I guess so.
I believe in this.
I've been raising him hard all my life.
I have that kind of perspective.
That's right.
I think I've got this husband.
Yeah, yeah.
It's difficult.
Well, that's right.
It's about what you're doing.
You're letting it go.
That's right.
Basically, we don't talk about anything about the house.
That's right.
I don't know what's going on when I'm raising him.
It's a small thing.
It's a small thing.
We basically say anything to our parents.
Both of us.
Mr. Fujiwara says to his parents.
I don't say anything at all.
He says it very clearly.
I say it clearly to my parents.
He's the type to say it.
He's the type to hurt me a lot.
That's right.
I feel like I'm scolding him.
That's true for both of us.
To my parents.
We get along very well with each other's parents.
But we say it clearly to our parents.
That's right.
I think it's up to my parents, no, my children to say it.
That's right.
That's why.
That's right.
We say it, so we don't want them to say it.
We say it to each other's parents, so we don't have any complaints.
I don't have any complaints.
I don't have any complaints.
I don't have any complaints.
I don't have any complaints.
If you say it's too much.
That's right.
I often say, I feel sorry for him, so please stop.
I'm sorry.
It's tough.
It's tough to say.
I say, don't say it there.
I say it every time.
She's shaking.
She's touching her tongue.
So the way we get the sense of distance, I'm actually the one who's getting closer.
Yeah, in a way.
Let's eat together.
I'm not a kind son.
That's right.
That's why we're both like that.
I may have a strong feeling that I don't want my child to bother my partner.
I may be very strict with my parents.
I see.
I think it's a big deal to be a parent and child while you can say that.
In the first place, there's a way to say it, but it's not worth it.
For the parents.
The parents.
That's right.
As a parent, I don't really interfere with my son or daughter.
I don't do that to my own children.
I think it's a big deal to be a grandchild.
That's right.
I think it's a big deal that it doesn't make sense to change completely.
I think it's better for the couple to talk a little more.
If the couple has the same opinion, I think they can get along with each other with a stronger feeling.
I think it's hard to feel like you have to deal with something by yourself.
I think it will be easier if the couple can think about it together when the mother says something like this.
I feel very comfortable when I think that my husband is on my side.
If you say, I'm saying it again, but don't worry about it.
I think that's the biggest thing.
I don't want it to be just me and my husband.
I think it's good to get involved.
Not in a bad way.
By the way, I live with my parents without any stress.
My mother, who passed away, is a person who has fought a lot.
With your mother's stepmother.
That's right.
From my point of view, it's my grandmother.
I feel like I've been working hard.
That's because you're in charge of the house.
That's right.
I feel like I've been able to live in a big house with my stepmother.
義両親との関係の複雑さ
My relatives gathered a lot on New Year's Day.
My stepmother was like, work hard and get a job.
My stepfather was like, it's an old house, so it's like a normal relationship.
I didn't have the idea of helping my stepmother.
My stepmother didn't expect me to ask my stepfather for help.
I don't know if she was talking about how to raise a child.
I felt like I had to do this for everything in my life.
I think it depends on your personality.
If you ask me if I wanted my stepfather to be with me,
I can't ask because he's gone now,
but I think I would have asked him to be on my side.
In terms of personality?
In terms of personality.
I think it was easier for me to fight.
There are people who are not good at being on your side.
You say unnecessary things.
I'm extra careful.
It's like you're saying things out loud.
I can't convey it well at all.
There are times when you say unnecessary things.
Yes, there are.
It's difficult.
It's difficult.
It depends on the person.
I'm good at accepting what's going on.
I don't think it's appropriate.
I'm glad I was able to do this.
You look at things from a meta perspective.
That's right.
If you can afford it, you might be able to do it.
That's right.
If you're told not to do it when you're full, you'll be like,
I think it's really hard.
You have to control yourself well.
In my case, I tell my parents about it.
That's how I deal with it.
I guess that's about it.
I'm not sure if it's going to be solved.
Everyone has their own family.
That's right.
It's different.
I think it's just hard.
Thank you very much.
リスナーからの手紙
Thank you for your hard work.
I just want to say thank you.
I understand.
I want you to do your best.
Please do your best.
In addition to the letter,
Here's the next letter.
It's from Lisa, the usual Lisa.
Hello, I've been assigned to episode 227 of Hironan.
I was so surprised by Ms. C's urgent report that I was shocked as a listener.
Thank you very much.
The timing of the implant, the short span to move,
I'm worried mentally and physically.
I can only cheer for you, but please do your best.
I'm also from Fukui Prefecture, and I often go on business trips to Fukui, but I'm really from the countryside.
There are a lot of dinosaurs in front of the station, so my son may be happy.
You're from Fukui Prefecture, aren't you?
That's right.
I need long shoes and scoops in snowy countries.
And the time the store closes is anyway early.
I pray that Ms. C will get used to the environment soon and have fun.
And I received the Hironan sticker safely.
I also enjoyed reading the message paper.
There was a seal on the cat sticker, and the seal was handwritten.
I was really happy to hear your concerns. Thank you very much.
I will continue to enjoy listening to you.
Thank you very much.
Thank you very much, Ms. Lisa.
Ms. Lisa, can I say this?
Actually, the other day, I went to a collaboration cafe in Osaka with my husband and Tommy.
It was the opening day of the Osaka store.
Was it the 4th of June?
At that time, I happened to meet Ms. Lisa.
What a coincidence!
She happened to come to the collaboration cafe.
It was right in front of the store.
I was shooting a video around the entrance.
She asked me if I was Mr. Hiro.
I thought I was caught because I was shooting a video.
Have you met her at the autograph session?
Yes, I have.
I have met Ms. Lisa several times.
義両親との距離感
I was really happy.
She is a professional fan.
She is a professional fan.
That's right.
I know that she is a North Korean citizen.
So she came from North Korea.
That's right.
Thank you very much.
That's amazing.
Did you buy shoes and scopes?
Yes, I bought them.
Thank you for the information.
It's early to close the store.
You said you don't go out after evening.
That's right.
I don't go out after 6 p.m.
I don't think it's inconvenient to raise a child at this stage.
That's right.
If I had more time, I might think it's early.
If I had lived here for many years.
I went to see the property in Fukui.
Every property has a scope for snow.
There is also an outer shoe for storage.
I felt the snow.
That's amazing.
It's snowing a lot.
It's definitely going to snow.
That's right.
Definitely.
If there is a cold wave, it will be snowy for a week or two.
The cold wave is once or twice a season.
I see.
It's to get through that period.
Yes.
Let's talk about that next time.
Yes, please.
That's all for this letter.
Thank you all for your letters.
Thank you.
I'm going to send you the address and name of the letter.
This is a behind-the-scenes story.
At the letter session, I consulted with Ghibo.
I see.
I just copied the contents of the letter.
Can I read the answer to the chat GPT?
Yes.
Here we go.
Hello, thank you for your message.
And congratulations on your birth.
I would like to send you a round of applause for your courage and action.
Now that I have read the contents of the consultation, my heart is tight.
I want you to understand, but I can't.
I want to protect it, but I don't want to stand on the corner.
I can't imagine how much you care about such a delicate balance.
The first thing I want to tell you is that you are doing the right thing.
You collect information for your baby, go to the hospital, moisturize your baby, and act with anxiety.
It's a great attitude.
The attitude that values the decision of a medical professional is the love and responsibility for the baby.
No matter what anyone says to you, you don't have to waver.
Now, about the relationship with a difficult medical professional.
To be honest, it may be difficult to understand each other completely.
Especially for those who strongly believe that they are right,
there are many times when logic and data alone are not enough.
But even if it is difficult to understand each other, you can draw a line.
If I were in your position, I might say this.
Based on the diagnosis and advice of the doctor, we chose this method after thinking about it.
I respect your mother's opinion, but I would like to proceed according to that policy in the future.
The point is not to deny it, but not to obey it.
We are the ones who are grateful for the opinion and pretend to accept it.
Don't break your position easily.
I understand very well that you can't come out strongly because your husband is kind.
But this is where I would like you to be a good couple.
By protecting me, I can be at ease and be involved with my mother.
It is also one way to convey the responsibility as a partner.
It's a matter of distance, but if you live together in the future,
it is necessary to make a rule that does not interfere in advance.
This is about the right of child-rearing,
so you can share in writing in advance that you will not accept anything other than what you have decided as a couple.
義両親との距離感
Of course, if you say it straight, the relationship will deteriorate,
and we are also at a loss with our first child-rearing,
so if you say that you want to cherish the opportunity to think for yourself first,
it will be a little difficult.
Even so, when it's hard, it's better to accept than to refuse.
There are times when your heart is less burdened.
That's right, I'll try to refer to it.
It is a strategy that does not execute in response.
In words, it is acceptance, and in action, it is distance.
If you think about your future relationship with your family,
your heart will be worn out if you are the only one who has a happy end.
Therefore, please recognize how much you can accept and how much you can refuse as a couple little by little.
Finally, if you think you can't stand this anymore,
it is proof that your heart is showing a limit sign.
You don't have to force yourself to laugh, you don't have to be strong.
The most important thing to remember is the baby and yourself.
Please cherish that feeling.
I will continue to support you.
Please let me hear from you anytime.
That was the answer.
Isn't it amazing?
It's pretty much the same.
That's right.
It's pretty much the same as what these three people said.
I think this is pretty much the right answer.
I think the advice was not so wrong.
It doesn't matter if you raise your child or not.
If you feel like you're being done, you're out.
I see.
Is it like you're being ignored?
Especially, men don't notice that kind of attitude from women.
Yes.
Oh, I see.
It's like people are moving away from you.
It's like you're being isolated.
Are you talking about being isolated?
No, I think it's easier if you can understand it yourself.
I think you're being too much of an observer.
Or you're not happy.
You're like a half-sleeping teacher.
I think that's important.
People might be in that position in the future.
Whether it's work or family.
That's right.
It's easy to get angry when you're told you're older than your age.
You don't have to be so strict with yourself.
I think it's possible.
I was wondering what it was like to consult with a chat GPT.
I see.
You hear that a lot, don't you?
It's like you're consulting, not doing research.
I'm sure that's what it's like.
I don't know how much I can accept it if I get a chat GPT.
I don't know if it makes sense that people are talking.
If I get a chat GPT, that's it.
I think there are a lot of people who do that.
I hear that a lot.
I felt like I had a private experience.
I see.
I didn't consult much.
I've never done it before.
It's a chat GPT, right?
That's right.
I don't consult with people that much.
You're not good at consulting.
I wanted to be able to accept it and realize it if I was accepted.
I think it's better to have a chat GPT.
You mean the person I consulted?
No, no, no.
Everything.
Everything?
I'd rather have a chat GPT than a chat GPT.
That's a great way to rely on a chat GPT.
I don't think so.
There's a tone.
That's true.
I think I'd be happy if I got a chat GPT.
Do you have your own experience?
Yes, I do.
Your own experience?
Yes, I do.
There's a kind of resentment from the bottom of my heart.
That's why I wanted to have a chat GPT when I talked to you.
I'm always happy to receive your messages.
Even if it's just a chat GPT?
That's right.
What do you mean by that?
Well, it's different.
The way you answer is different.
It might have a different taste.
That's it for today.
I'm always happy to receive your messages.
I'm always happy to receive your messages.
I'm always happy to receive your messages.
Thank you.
Thank you.
