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Endless Paradise
静香ちゃんは海外に行って帰ってきてすぐというところではありますけどそうですねごめんなさいお待たせしました以上のお時間をよろしくお願い致しますどうもありがとうございましたちなみにRKBは
I came back from New York yesterday.
I heard it was pretty chaotic.
Yes. I couldn't get on the plane I was supposed toget on!
It was hard to get home.
The weather was bad.
It was a plane that I was supposed to get on,
but I was stuck in the plane for 3 hours.
What?
Yeah, so I finally got up and went to Dallas.
But I couldn't get on the plane that was supposedto take me from Dallas to Haneda.
So you were in Dallas for another day?
That's right.
But I'm a positive thinker, so I had a lot of funin Dallas!
I had a lot of fun!
You could even extend your stay there.
It was the best.
It was the best.
God was like,
Thank you so much for giving me such a greatreward!
But I couldn't get on the plane,
so I had to go all the way to Haneda by myself.
I didn't have any makeup,
so I went back to the hotel with nothing on me.
Yes, that's right.
So I thought,
I can't help it, but I'm going to enjoy Dallas.
I was recommended that the shopping mall there wasvery fulfilling,
so I went shopping at the shopping mall!
I did it!
I bought a lot.
I had a lot of fun.
I'm really curious about what you bought.
I bought a lot of clothes and hats.
It was very fulfilling.
You got a lot more than the clothes that arrivedfirst, didn't you?
That's right.
I didn't have anything, so I got a pouch at theairport.
I got a set of toothbrushes and a pouch.
There are many hotels that don't havetoothbrushes.
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It was a good hotel, so it was like a heaven bed.
It was good, but I was so grateful that there weretoothbrushes in a state where there was nothing.
I don't know how grateful I am.
I don't know how grateful I am that there aretoothbrushes.
I don't know how grateful I am that there arecombs.
I was grateful that there was nothing I usedcasually on a daily basis.
It was a time when you could feel the happiness ofyour daily life.
Dallas was fun.
It was good.
It was good, wasn't it?
The result was that the luggage arrived at Hanedasafely.
I was happy when it came out.
It was a touching reunion.
It was a good trip.
Power up again.
I've been charging a lot of energy overseas, soI'm fine today.
That's good.
I'll send it to you today, but I have a question.
Yes, thank you.
From Ebi Kakiage Soba, a radio name in ItoshimaCity.
It looks delicious.
I want to eat it.
Shizuka-san, Takami-san, hello.
Hello.
My father has been hospitalized repeatedly, sowhen my father died, my aunt told me to come toShingu Town.
I don't want to leave Itoshima City, so I refuse.
I refuse, but I'm told that I'm in trouble alone.What should I do?
I'm not in trouble at all.
Shintaro-chan and I live alone.
That's right.
Trouble?
Rather.
Rather.
Rather.
Rather.
I can live on my own time.
I feel like I'm released.
I feel like I'm released.
No, really.
I'm sure the aunt of Ebi Kakiage Soba might be alittle worried about living alone.
That's right.
She must be thinking about a 56-year-old person.
Well, she's a 56-year-old woman, so maybe she'sclose to 70 or a little older.
Life is 100 years.
It's probably half.
It's half.
You don't have to go out at all. Itoshima is agood place.
That's right.
I think it's important for Ebi Kakiage Soba to saythat she lives in Itoshima.
I think it's good. Because it's my life. It's notmy aunt's life.
Living alone is good, isn't it?
I think I'm emphasizing too much.
No, no, no.
But I'm sure you haven't experienced the goodnessof living alone for a while.
Maybe in terms of historical background, you mighthave been a married couple from your family.
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I'm sure.
If you're like that, you might be worried becauseyou've never experienced the goodness of livingalone or the sense of freedom.
That's right.
You might be lonely, or you might think you'reliving alone in a negative way.
Maybe.
It's not like that at all.
My voice is getting louder.
No, no, no. I think there are a lot of things likethat.
That's right.
It might be good once in a while, but you don'thave to do it all the time.
No, I don't.
So I'm sure Ebi Kakiage Soba will increase thefrequency a little more than before, but it's timeto meet.
I think it's a good choice to live alone whileincreasing the frequency so that you don't feellonely.
I think it's definitely good. Itoshima is a reallygood place, so it's hard to leave where you live.
As long as you don't have a job or get married, Ithink it's really happy to stay there.
So you might think it's happier to come to Shingu.
But if you look at Ebi Kakiage Soba, it's the besthappiness to live alone in Itoshima.
I think you can really say it.
You may want to pursue that happiness.
But it's better not to say no all of a sudden.
This is called yes plus bad.
I've been teaching when I'm using words.
Yes plus bad?
I accept it once with yes.
I'm told that I'm in trouble living alone inShingu.
I accept it once like, oh, yeah, I might be introuble.
That's yes.
But I still want to live in Itoshima.
I'm not in trouble living alone.
I've been living alone, so I'm definitely not introuble.
That's how I say good things after that.
Don't say no all of a sudden like I did.
Don't say, no, living alone is fine.
Don't say, I'm not in trouble.
Say, yes, you're right.
Thank you for worrying about me.
Accept it once with yes.
And then say, no, but.
How about saying that?
If you do that, maybe the way you accept it willchange.
That's right.
You might get a good answer.
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Ebikakeage Soba-san is not living alone.
She's living with her father.
That's what it means.
Her father is returning to the nursing home.
I don't know if my aunt is living alone or withmultiple people.
I don't know from here.
I don't think my aunt is living alone.
Oh, really?
That means she's thinking about Ebikakeage Soba-san.
That's right.
I see.
So let's say yes and accept it once.
Thank you.
That's right.
I might have mistakenly recognized this letter.
If I had been told earlier, I might have.
One person is in trouble.
That means Ebikakeage Soba-san is in trouble ifshe's alone.
I see.
Then this person has the right to choose.
That's right.
I see.
Shintaro-chan, did you misunderstand?
I misunderstood.
My aunt is having a hard time living alone.
No, no, no.
I see.
But I'm worried, and my aunt is telling me this.
I see.
Accept it once.
That's right.
Accept it with a yes.
But it's okay.
Why don't you tell her that firmly?
Let's do that.
Yes.
Ebikakeage Soba-san.
Because it's your life.
That's right.
That's right.
From the age of 56, once again.
That's right.
It's fun.
I think it's good to move on.
When I turned 60, I said,
Life starts at 60.
Life starts at 60.
When I turned 70, I said,
Life starts at 70.
I'm really looking forward to a fun life from nowon.
I'm sure you'll say the same thing when you turn80.
I think so.
I think so.
I've completely forgotten my age.
That's true.
Even on my previous birthday,
I was a few years younger.
Really, really.
So what my daughter told me today was,
Mom, aren't you 27 years old?
Not 72 years old.
I think I'm 27 years old.
Why are you so energetic?
You're not sleeping at all.
I was with my daughter.
I'm so excited.
I said to myself,
Mom, I'm sure you're 27 years old.
I think I'm energetic.
Really?
I'm not that energetic at 24.
Is that so?
I'm not that energetic at 17.
Is that so?
Maybe.
When I said I was 27,
I was really thinking about my life when I was 27.
It's just the right time for a new step.
I'm not 27 years old at all.
When I was 27,
I was thinking about what to do from now on.
I have a lot of money.
I have a lot of things.
But my heart is not satisfied.
That's what I was thinking at that time.
So now,
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the situation you're in
and the environment around you may be the same,
but the way you think may be different.
The environment was completely different.
Because I was still married.
I see.
That was the biggest difference.
Yes.
We've been talking for a while now.
It's just the right time.
Is that so?
Mr. Ebi Kakiage,
No, Mrs. Ebi Kakiage.
Please live in Itoshima and enjoy living alone.
Please do.
Today,
we talked about my own life plan.
I'm looking forward to a happy job.
I'm also looking for advice on my job,
so please send me an email.
The email address is
shizuka.rkbr.jp
Fax is 092-844-8844
There is also a program's SNS.
Please search and post on the hashtag Enpara.
If you want to know more about Shizuka,
please search for
Nagai Shizuka or International Air Academy.
We were able to make 113 people happy today.
I'm looking forward to seeing who will be happynext.
Endless Paradise Shizuka's heart-to-heart talk.
The guests were RKB announcer Shintaro Takami and
Shizuka.
See you next week at this time.
Yes.