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ようこそ、ケビンの英語の雑談!Kevinです。
こんにちは、みんな。
これは、シバ犬のしっぽさんです。
シバ犬のしっぽさん。
どれが正しい?
何で書いてあるの?
シバ犬?シバ犬?
まあ、シバ犬だと思う。
シバ犬。
はい。
何時にシバ犬を読むの?
シバ犬。
何を言っているの?
シバ犬。
シバ犬。シバ犬。
何時にシバ犬を言うのが正しい?
わからない。
わからない。
同じだ。
どうして?
どうして2つのシバ犬があるの?
シバ犬、シバ犬、シバ犬。
シバ犬。
あなたの場合、それらはすでに交換できる?
はい。だから、私はいつ読むの?
シバ犬はシバ犬。
それは正しい選択が必要だ。
シバ犬の読み方。
ウィキペディア。
シバ犬は日本原産の日本犬の一種。
シバ犬とも言われる。
2つの読み方が必要だ。
別の記事。
シバ犬、シバ犬。
シバ犬の読み方がいろいろある理由。
理由はありますか?
いいえ。
私はこの文章を読むのが嫌いだ。
読み方がたくさんある。
そして結論がない。
結論がない。私は知っている。
あなたは全ての文章を読む。
私は結論がない。
それは間違いだ。
私は最後に見る。
次のページに行かなければならない。
私はそれが嫌いだ。
最後の段落。
もちろん、どちらが絶対的な正解であることはありませんし、
読み方は人それぞれなので、
気にしすぎることはないと思います。
ありがとう。
悪いことは知っていますか?
日本の文章より悪いことは知っていますか?
アメリカのレシピ文章。
それはひどい。
ひどい?
アドバイス。
アドバイス。
ひどい。
ひどい。
レシピはどこにあるの?
それはそれぞれに混ざっています。
まず、
あなたが本当の文章を取り除くだけならば、
それはこの長さです。
そして20%は本当の情報です。
その他の80%は、
マカロニとチーズは何ですか?
マカロニとチーズはなぜとても人気ですか?
マカロニとチーズの他のアルタリティーは何ですか?
その後、
実際のレシピ。
それはひどい。
そしてその全ての文章の間に
あなたはすべてのアドバイスがあります。
それはひどい。
それはひどい。
それはひどい。
柴犬。
柴犬。
柴犬。
柴犬と柴犬はどちらも正解です。
こんにちは。
こんにちは。
朝の通勤にいつも楽しく拝聴しています。
相談です。
結婚後の借金発覚
私は3月に結婚した夫に1億の借金が発覚しました。
厳密に言うと不動産投資なので現物はあるのですが、
4年間付き合ってきて
お金や女関係などはきちんとしている方だと信じて疑わなかったので
かなりの衝撃と悲しみ
婚約前にどうして相談してくれなかったのか
せめて結婚前に話すべきではなかったのではないかと憤慨しました。
話し合いを何度か重ねましたが
もう5年10年経たないとうまくいくかどうかはわからないそうです。
借金を払って
投資には興味がなかった私も色々と調べて
彼の現状と気持ちを理解しようとしましたが
投資がうまくいくかどうか以前に
借金による後悔と離婚の検討
多額の借金を隠して結婚してしまったことによるとてつもない後悔で
食欲がなくなり
先行不安定なものを背負って生きていく精神力がなく
離婚も視野に入れて考えていかなくてはと思い始めました。
大切な人だっただけに本当にやるせなく
仕事に身も入らずです。
今は家庭内別居を始めましたが
時々言い合わせてしまうことが不快でつらいです。
ケビンさんやまちゃんさんならどうしますか?
明るく笑い飛ばしてくださっても結構ですし
素直な意見をいただけるのもありがたいです。よろしくお願いします。
一億ってことはワンルームのマンションを購入したのかな?
運用してるみたいだね。
東京の真ん中にある可能性がある
ふどうさんの値段があまり低くない可能性がある
その人がふどうさんを売ってくれるかもしれない
確かに半分以上は売ってないと思うけど
売るときに悪いことが起きるかもしれない
売るときに売るときに悪いことが起きるかもしれない
そんな悪い状況ではないと思う
あなたはまだ売ることができる
それについて考えてみてください
彼は建物のオーナーである
ビジネスの運営者
それについて考えてみてください
他のエントリーナーが新しいビジネスを始めたとしても
彼らは最初にバンクを借りてビジネスを運営する
彼らはレストランを運営している
同じように考えてみてください
確かに
私はそれが正しい言葉だと思います
私はそれが正しい言葉だと思います
彼がよく計画されている
彼がよく管理されている
彼がそれについて知っている
それは良いです
私は同意します
しかし彼はそれを秘密に保ちました
結婚の前に
確かに
私はそれが彼が結婚の前に
彼が結婚の前に
彼が結婚の前に
彼が結婚の前に
確かに
でもそれは問題ではありません
それはあなたが売ることができるからです
確かに
それについてコンサルトしてみてください
物件を売るために
それは1億円の借金ではありません
確かに
あなたは私のお金を送ってくれるかもしれません
確かに
私は値段を知っていません
確かに
もし彼が最近買った
値段はそれほど変わりません
確かに
確かに
もしそれは新宿ではありません
もしそれは新宿ではありません
確かに
突然
20%か何か
でもそれが上がるかもしれません
私は確かに
それは不可能です
確かに
だから
それはあまりにも
単純にあなたは
あなたがたくさんのパチンコをする
そして
800万円の借金を持っている
それは同じではありません
私たちはそれを別にする必要があります
それはガンブリングの問題ではありません
それは純粋な借金のようなものです
彼は値段を持っています
そうです
彼はビジネスを持っています
そうです
それは驚いたかもしれません
私たちはそれを秘密に保つために
そうです
そうです
そうです
私はそれを理解します
だから質問は
あなたの
あなたの
あなたのお金は
正しい
彼のお金の流れ
そうです
正しい
彼は
1億円の借金を持っている
物件
何が
本当の流れ
そうです
そうです
彼は正しい仕事を持っている
そして
それは
それは
それが大丈夫だったら
それは大丈夫だと思う
そうです
そうです
私は
私は
旦那の借金発覚
彼が1億円の借金を持っている
というのが間違いだと思う
そうです
それは
それは
それは
それは
それは
それは
それは
それは
彼は
儲け偿金
貸切
柱
あなたの
いい
施策
そうで
あれだ
で
あ
しかし
それを説明するべき
それは
それは
彼の
彼 Cover
彼が
彼が
彼が
彼が
彼が
彼が
彼が
彼は
彼は
自身の借金の比較
彼は
彼が
very unstable, right? That's true, that's true. That's, that's, he's responsible to explain how, how the, you know,
yeah, the business is gonna be. And, you know, I'm sure that you can't usually get a
chokuen business loan that easily. Right. So you have to have a stable job. True. You have to have a
good status, like a social status. So true. For the bank to give you that much loan. That's right. So I
feel like this person has enough knowledge to think through the whole process, right? That's right.
Because I can't have a chokuen loan. I deny it. I mean, we, it's impossible for us because we're not
in a stable company. Yeah. Right. Because we've, we've quit that corporate life. Yes. We're never
gonna get a good loan anymore. Right. That was one thing that I thought that I should have done
when I was still in my first chemical company of like, oh, that was one, like, well, I was, the only
thing I was thinking about was like, oh, credit cards. Like, oh, I can't get credit cards anymore,
so I should get one now. But like, it was the jyutaku loan that was bigger, I think. Yes. You
know? Yeah. But, yeah. That's true. That's true. It's true, right? Yeah. Like, we can't get any
good loans anymore. Yeah. Yeah. That's sad. We have to pay cash now. Yeah. That was like,
jyutaku. It's fucked up. No. Yeah. I actually had my one friend who introduced us, you know,
those like, fudo-san things to me, and then introduced that company to me. Yeah. And I had
a meeting with him, and the meeting was very nice. Oh, that's lovely. Sounds good. And then he's
gonna be, oh, I'm gonna check that, how the use is gonna be, and he's gonna check with the bank
and everything. Yeah. And two days after that, he called me that,
they won't even give you a loan. Yeah, that's zero. Harsh reality, right? Yeah, it's fucking harsh.
I know. Yeah. It's fucking tough. That's tough. It's fucking tough. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So,
I think the situations are different than his situation. It should be more stable than we are.
Oh, yeah. Definitely, right? Yeah. I think he has a proper, stable... He has a job. Yeah, yeah.
He has a, yeah, socially accepted job, right? Yeah. We're not socially accepted.
I know. Yeah. I mean, student loans are debt, right? True. That's debt. Yeah, that's a big debt.
Right, right, right, right, right. Yeah. I don't know why I said that.
By this one, you have a property yourself. Yeah, he has a property. Yeah. So, in that
sense, it's better than a student debt. Yes, yes, yes. Yeah. So,
let him have an explanation time. Yeah. Like, presentation time. Presentation time. Yeah.
借金に関する知識不足
But, you know, there's a... I'm not too educated on this topic, but, like,
you know how some of those, like, one-room mansion, toshi, trap? Oh, it's a trap? It's like,
it's like a shouhin for the uneducated. Oh, really? And it's like, it's like... Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So, in that shouhin, it's like, there's a keiyaku mongon where, like, you can't,
you can't, not like, you can't sell your property for, like, however many years or something. And,
like, it's, you're kind of stuck with a bukken. Right. And, like, if it's not one of those,
then I think, yeah, you kind of have to see if that's not one of those traps. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
That's right. I'm not too, I'm not too educated, but, like, yeah. Yeah, yeah. Well, me too. I
research on those, you know, those toshi things, and there are so many traps. Right, right. It's
scary. It's scary. Yeah. It's true. That's true. Right. But if it's well-planned,
good enough as in business, and then he bought that property. Yes. And running it properly,
that's different from just having a shakken. So, yeah. It's even possible that he's more
skilled than everyone else. Yeah. Like, he's more of a money player than everyone else. It's
possible. Right. Yeah. Right. Right. Well, good luck though. Yeah. Good luck though.
結婚後の共有財産
Three months or four months in marriage. Yeah. That's a shocker, you know. Wait,
um, do you reveal every money situation to your girlfriend? Good question. Yeah. I wouldn't.
Right. That's a good question. I wouldn't do that. But when it comes to marriage. Yeah. I do think
it's a different kind of scenario. Like, the kakei is going to be together, right? Yes, yes. So,
I guess you would sort of kind of. Right. Kind of share the situation, but, like, I don't know
how deep I should go into. Like, am I going to show my wife my bank account and everything?
Am I going to show every bank account? Yeah. Like, I don't. Well, I mean, there's nothing to hide.
Yeah. I don't know how I should play it. Right. Like, I don't know how I should play it. Yeah,
it's difficult. Like, are you going to give all your money to the household, or is there going
to be like a together account and a separate account for private and together? Is it going
to be like that? Or is it going to be like, you know, the back in the old days, old-fashioned
style where the wife controls all the money and you get allowance? Or I don't know how it's going
to play out. Yeah. I haven't really considered that. Right. But, good question. Especially
パートナーの財産開示
before marriage, if you reveal things and then it's possible that you're going to be broke with
that. You're fucking right. Like, I've never dated someone and showed that person my income.
I've never fully disclosed my income to a partner of mine ever. Well, same here. Like, exact income.
Exact incomes. True. Like, there was a conversation where you could sort of sniff out the range,
but like, never in like the full, like in a yen. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So true. Yeah. And I don't know
when the proper timing would be. But to me, if we get married and like, wife and husband,
it's natural to me that we know. Right, the financial status of the partner. Yeah. So,
when would be the proper time to open, to disclose your financial status? Yeah. Like,
is it before, right before proposal? Or like, is it right after proposal? Like, what if,
what if the financial status wasn't good and the proposal gets reversed? Yeah. True. Right?
It's just weird. That sounds not true, love. This is a very difficult question.
Oh my, that's difficult. Do you sort of have to like, kind of give them hints of like,
this is where my status is. Like, if that person reacts fine or not. And then if you're kind of
confident about where you're at, then you're kind of settled, I guess. Maybe just kind of
give off jabs of like, this is my financial status, jab. That's the only way I can think of it. Yeah.
結婚前の重要な質問
Wow. But if you reveal after marriage, then this happens, right? Right. Right. But before marriage,
you reveal, so I have this property, I have this money. Exactly. Would you marry me? That's so
weird. Yeah. Right? Like, you don't marry for their properties and their wealth, right? I mean,
some people do, but like, that's not really, you know. Well, it's sort of a stigma, right? So like,
I guess it's not unnatural to do that. Wow. Definitely. I have a friend that went on a
dating app. And that person, I thought it was a very good idea. And that person had a question
sheet. On a dating profile? Well, not on the dating profile, but like, after they decided to
kind of get together, or not after, right before. That person sort of got this question sheet of
like, all the important kachikans that are awkward to ask. Of like, do you have shakken? Or like,
how many kids do you want to have? Like, when do you want to have kids? Do you want to get married
when? And all that hard to ask questions. Yeah. She did that at the very beginning of the
relationship. Wow. And if their kachikans agreed, decided to continue the relationship,
now she's married to that person. Wow. Yeah. Then I guess that's perfect. And I thought that was a
very good way of kind of, it's a tough start. Right. Right. It's a very tough start. Right.
財産披露の必要性
And it's like, you're really kind of filtering. It's a hard filtering process. But ultimately,
it really makes sense. Right. Right. If you're just having time, like three years, four years,
with one partner, which actually isn't, kachikans are matched well. Yeah. And then after four,
five years, then finally, now it's much more tough. Right. Yeah. Then you knew it from the
beginning. Right. Yeah. Well, that's a good one. Yeah. I got the question sheet from her.
Can you give me those shisei? That was a good idea.
Wow. Oh, that person was, oh, I don't know if this information was supposed to be disclosed,
so I'm not going to say. Okay. Was working on a film that you saw and.
Working on a film? Yeah. She's in the industry. Oh. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. But I don't know if this
information is supposed to be disclosed, so yeah. Oh, yeah. Okay. Of course. Of course. All right.
So. Wow. All right. Yeah. That's a good idea. Yeah. Good idea. Right. Yeah. All right. Thanks
for listening, guys. Thank you. Bye-bye.