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Welcome back to another episode of Kev's English Room Podcast!
Kev, Kev, Kev!
Yes!
Remember that?
The echo?
Yes!
My awesome echoing!
I've been waiting for this moment.
It's back!
Woooo!
Woooo!
I know there are so many people that have been waiting for this echoing.
Oh yeah, uh huh.
I can feel it.
I can feel it.
Yeah, you feel it?
Yeah, I can feel the crowd.
Wow, you feel it?
Yeah, I do.
The crowd?
Yeah, the crowd just going, "Oh!"
"Oh, I've been waiting, Kevin."
Yeah, and I needed to give that to you guys.
Wow!
Oh yeah.
Lucky guy.
Oh yeah, I know.
So we are still talking about Naosuke-san's topics.
Thank you!
Thank you Naosuke-san.
Thank you.
So the next one is, "Hito ni miryoku wo kanjiru shunkan wo oshiete kudasai."
Ah, that's another great topic right there.
Uh huh.
So here's her comment.
Okay, here we go.
The juice.
Yeah.
"Dousei isei towazu, me wo shikkari mite arigatou tte iwareta shunkan ni dokitto shimasu."
Hmm, hmm, hmm, hmm.
I understand this.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, me too.
"Me wo mite arigatou tte iwareta toki."
Yeah, yeah.
Right.
So, do you have any?
So, "Miryoku wo kanjiru toki," right?
"Hito ni miryoku wo kanjiru shunkan."
Uh, hmm.
Hmm.
I have several actually.
Okay.
Uh, you know, so many things are coming out, coming up in my life.
Okay.
But one is someone is laughing like, like so, well it doesn't have to be high, but laughing
like...
Laughing from their heart.
Yeah, yeah.
Like laughing like children, like laughing like 100%.
Is that like, so laughing because it's actually funny versus laughing because the atmosphere
tells them to be laughing.
Is that what you're talking about?
Yeah, yeah.
And also not try to, to cover...
Uh, huh.
The awkwardness.
I mean, uh, like, like, uh, it's something that, you know, there's some people try not
to, to reveal the 100% laughing.
Oh yeah?
I don't like those people actually.
Just laughing like his or her 100% laughing.
Oh, okay.
Like.
So, it wasn't what I said.
It's more like...
What you said is also important.
Plus the fact that it's, she's not hiding her like true, like smile.
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Yeah.
True laughter.
Joyful.
Yeah.
Okay.
Okay.
Okay.
That's...
The fact that she's expressing them is for you.
Yeah.
But what if she thinks that it's truly funny if she's not letting out the laughter to a
full extent?
It's not mediocre for you.
Yeah.
Okay.
Right.
Gotcha.
Right.
Gotcha.
All right.
So what else?
What else?
Someone with politeness.
When I feel politeness from someone's gestures or like behaviors, I feel, wow, she is or he
is attractive.
Oh, right.
Right.
Like the way he or way she walks, talks, you know, little gestures like, I don't know,
but you know, these gestures, you know?
Yeah.
That you, that shows politeness, right?
Yeah.
Like, how should I say this?
Like, like gentleness, you know, like middle.
Okay.
Yeah.
You know, that's what I feel.
Attractiveness.
Okay.
Someone like a Iroke.
Yeah.
A little same to Iroke.
Yeah.
Right.
Right.
Right.
Right.
Okay.
I understand that.
Yeah, I do.
Yeah, I do.
I do.
Is there anything else or?
Oh, like someone is sleeping.
Ah.
Do you?
Yeah, I agree.
I agree.
Oh, really?
Because like that's 100%.
There's no acting in that, right?
Right.
That's what I like maybe.
Yeah.
Right.
Right.
Right.
Right.
Right.
Right.
Right.
Right.
Right.
Yeah.
Or what else?
Do you have anything?
Yeah, I'm trying to think of one.
I would say.
Hmm.
The moment you feel someone is attractive.
Oh, I found one.
Okay.
Is someone trying hard to.
Oh, yeah.
Pursue.
Oh, yeah.
Yeah.
Okay, I'll shut up for a minute, okay?
He's a dream, you know.
Maybe studying after 9 to 5.
Oh, yeah.
Of fucking.
Or go to the gym.
Daily basis.
Or like reading or, you know, studying or practice anything.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah, I think you told me that several episodes ago in the past.
Yeah.
I like it.
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Uh-huh.
I got one.
Did you?
When somebody is.
Yeah.
When somebody is like really.
When I see self-confidence in themselves.
Okay.
Okay.
That's attractive to me.
Okay.
But like.
I'm talking about like.
Like.
Like from the core.
Self-confidence.
Okay.
So it's not like.
Oh, yeah, I'm confident kind of like that.
It doesn't.
It's not that simple.
It's more like.
If someone's truly confident with themselves.
He's not insecure.
He doesn't like.
Like he doesn't talk bad for anybody else.
When his.
When his.
When his number one rival.
Beats him.
He's happy about that.
Oh, right.
When his.
When.
When.
When you're.
When he's betrayed.
When his friends betray him.
He is.
He's very.
He's under control.
Right.
He's very like he accepts.
He accepts.
The other person's like faults.
Right.
He accepts everything.
Right.
That's when I.
That's I think that's like true kind of like.
Confidence.
You know, like when I see that.
When I see that sort of like a.
Like a characteristic in somebody.
I feel like, oh, wow.
Attractive.
God damn attractive.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Must be so strong person.
Oh, yeah.
Must be.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And I'm I'm I want to be like that, too.
I'm aiming for that kind of like.
Really self-confident kind of.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So kind of like.
Jim, you know, you're not.
Right.
Isn't that kind of like true?
That's true.
Right.
Right.
It's really similar to what you want to be.
Yes.
You feel is very attractive.
Right.
So.
Right.
Yeah.
Mm hmm.
Well, you are like stepping forward to that.
Oh, yeah.
Oh, thank you.
Yeah.
Yeah, I am.
I'm working hard.
Mm hmm.
That's important.
Right.
I go to bed and just be like, Kevin, you're awesome.
That's something.
Oh, that's important.
No, no, it's not.
Yeah.
Don't do that.
Yeah.
Nothing to do with nothing to do with the inner true self.
Yeah.
It's completely outside.
Right.
Right.
Right.
It's the outer layer.
Yeah.
Right.
Hmm.
Oh, yeah.
What you said that something you want to be is attractive to you is true.
That is true.
All right.
Right.
Right.
So it's not like these little things were like if when when somebody takes an action
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that's selfless.
Selfless is the opposite of selfish.
Yeah.
Right.
So only thinking about the other person.
Mm hmm.
When somebody does an action takes an action that's only caring about the other person.
So like an action that doesn't ask for anything in return.
You know what I'm talking about?
Like if if if let's see if I come to your house and I kind of like what I I clean the
floor.
Thank you.
Okay.
And then you weren't looking right.
So if I'm that action if I if you somehow saw that action, you know, okay, without you
knowing that I saw that action.
Yeah, it's getting very confusing care.
Yeah.
You know what I'm talking about?
Right.
So right.
Does that act of kindness in a place where the other person can't is not being seen?
You know what I'm talking about?
Like taking doing something kind just for the sake of doing something kind.
Yeah.
Is attractive.
Okay.
So doing something kind for the sake of being appreciated or for the sake of asking something
in return is not you get what I'm saying?
Yeah.
I'm doing it.
Thank you for the long explanation.
I took like five different ways.
That was really like kindness of yours.
Well, you probably understood that in the first try.
Yeah.
But that's attractive too.
Yeah.
Yeah, that is attractive.
Right.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I feel like that's great.
Yeah.
Selfless.
Selflessness.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Or like someone with like amazing face, you know?
Oh, yeah.
That's kind of attractive.
Yeah.
You want to okay.
Yeah.
That's like, that's like a really fast kind of like, that's a real easy kind of like mediocre
kind of right?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Good face.
Yeah.
Good face.
Yeah.
Right.
Yeah.
Good face and has lots of money.
Yeah.
Yeah.
That's important.
Yeah.
Yeah.
That's important.
That's important.
Yeah.
And they're attractive.
That's attractive.
How about like having a fancy car?
Oh, yeah.
Yeah.
That's oh, yeah.
Right.
Especially when that car when when when that friend gives you that car.
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Yeah.
Yeah.
That's a good idea.
Yeah.
Right.
And like that person who always like buys you yakiniku.
That's attractive right there.
You know?
That is so attractive.
Yeah.
That's right.
Yeah, it is.
It is.
Yeah.
So that's our answer.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Right.
Right.
Right.
Right.
Right.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Right there.
That's our final answer.
Right.
Thanks for listening guys, bye bye!
