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Welcome to Kevin's English Room Podcast.
So, last episode, I talked about when I should say居酒屋1件で2時間飲むより、2件を1時間時ずつ飲むほうがいい理由。
じゃあ、そろそろ行きますか。
when you're in a 飲み会。
Yeah.
And then, your question at the end was like, doyou want me to say it?
Yeah.
Do you want me to start saying, start closing upthe party after 40 minutes?
Because 40 minutes is the best time for me.
Yes.
Well, well, why would you do that? So that I won'tfeel uncomfortable?
Yes, yes, yes. Because after 40 minutes, you'rekind of being patient, right?
Yeah.
So, that's something I don't, like, nobody wantsthat, right? So...
Well, sure.
But, like, it's like, you know, it's not nobody isright or nobody's wrong, I feel like, you know?
There are 価値観, like, mine's 40 minutes, they'remaybe an hour and a half.
And like, you know, I mean, is it right to go withwhoever's the shortest? I don't know about that,man.
No, no, I mean, for example, 40 minutes is tooshort to me.
Okay.
But I can be, like, my question is, will I behelpful for you if you, like, if I, like, startending and just easy, like, make it easier for youto leave the place?
And then, for example, let's say we're six and youleave in 40 minutes and we five go to the nextplace.
Is that, like, helpful or not?
Because to me, I don't want to have a guy or girlsthat doesn't enjoy the moment but has to be in theplace and then, you know, as a friend, so...
So, first of all, thank you.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
That's very kind of you to do that.
After hearing that, like...
Very kind of you.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Second of all, ultimately, I should be the onethat can handle that stuff, like, if I'm feelinguncomfortable, I should handle it, like, I shouldtake care of the problem so that I don't feeluncomfortable.
Third, like, if I were to get your help, thatwould not be helpful enough.
Oh, okay, okay.
What should I do then?
I need your help to be able to...for me to be ableto leave the site even if the atmosphere is like,hey, let's go to a second place because right now,someone who cannot say out loud, who's notconfident of, like, hey, let's end this, rightnow, I'm not confident of, like, hey, let's endthe show, let's end the Nomikai, it's been anhour, so I'm not confident, right?
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Someone who's not that confident cannot say, oh, Ican't go to, oh, no, I can't, that I can't do.
You cannot resist that.
Yeah, I can't turn down the second Nomikai, right?
So you'd have to punch me in the face and make mego home.
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
I can do that.
I can do that, honestly.
But, like, yeah, like, if you...this is a scenarioof, like, if I were to get help from somebody,though, but, like, ultimately, where I want to getto is I don't...not needing help from anybody,like, I want to take care of this, like, I want tocontrol this, ultimately, right?
So, thank you, though.
No, no, no, yeah, okay, yeah, yeah, I see, becauseI don't...yeah, okay, goody, goody, goody, goody,goody.
Hey, but that 40 minutes, you know, it's just...it's weird, but sometimes, yeah, but, yeah, nevermind.
Yeah, it's always 40 minutes.
I feel like I really have, like, a longer time ofthat.
You, maybe 40 minutes.
I don't know, maybe I can go three hours, fourhours, you know.
Really?
Yeah.
Damn.
So, but I don't want to, people like you, to,like, you know, be, like, I don't want to forcepeople to, like, I want to go home, but no, so,yeah, I don't want to be one of those organizersthat, you know, like, forced to go, like,everybody to, like,
4件目, and just, you know, you see what I mean?
I see what you mean, yeah, I know those, like, 上司,yeah, I want to be, like, you can go and you canleave whatever you want type of party.
Well, that's very difficult, don't you think?
Yeah.
That's very difficult, because, like, someone likeme, I don't want people to know.
I don't want people to know that I want to leaveearlier than anybody else.
So, it's, like, my goal is for you to not senseit, right?
I see.
So, it's very hard.
I see.
Yeah.
Yeah.
But, yeah, you said it to me, so I thought it canbe helpful, you know.
Yeah, well, thank you.
Thank you.
Yeah.
Yeah.
But, recently, what I do is do, like, Ichijikai, Nijikai, Sanjikai, very rare, but I do the, like, Idon't go, like, three hours at one restaurant,but, like, make it, like, Ichijikai, Nijikai, Sanjikai.
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So, that it makes it easier for people to go home?
Yeah, make them, like, make me to.
What do you mean?
Like, if you have, like, one Kugiri so thateverybody will be easier to go home or, like,finish.
What did you mean when you said it's for you aswell?
Yeah, because sometimes things go not good as Ithought.
What are you saying?
パーティーを始めるときに
そう
例えば
説明しにくいけど
誰かが誰かが
上手くいかない
二人とも同じ人間のことを
話してるの?
そう
例えば
あなたはこれをしないかもしれないけど
例えば4人のパーティーを
その中の
彼らはそんなに近い
OK
そして私は
彼らは
彼らはとても良い友達になるかもしれない
ああ、OK
だから
でも
私は間違っていた
OK、あなたはそれを感じた
そう、私は失敗した
そして
私は彼らを
彼らを
同じ状態で
終わる
そして
もう一度始める
だから私は
1回、2回、3回
それは
終わる機会が
もしくは、あなたが
あなたが
あなたが
あなたが
あなたが
あの人達を
あなたが
家に帰りたいのだ
わかる
私は
パーティーをする
注意し
あなたは
終わりにする
だろう
主な目標は
二次会
三次会
でも、終わる機会が増えたりすることを考えたりするのが、最近のことだと思っている
だから、例えば、あなたを招待してもらったとしたら、私はあなたのために役に立つかもしれない
09:04
そういう質問だった
誰かが新しい人だったら、確かに40分くらいかかるかもしれない
20分くらいかかるかもしれない
でも、それは冗談です
40分くらいかかるかもしれない
あなたがオーガナイザーであるとしても、私を新しい人に紹介するとしても、私たちが気持ち悪いと感じるとしても、それはとても役に立つかもしれない
それはとても役に立つかもしれない
そういう場合は、あなたがオーガナイザーであるとしても、あなたはもっと力を持っている
それはとても役に立つかもしれない
私はそのシチュエーションを考えていた
わかりました
20分くらいかかるかもしれない
あなたはとても思考的なオーガナイザーです
それは役に立つかもしれない
それはとても役に立つかもしれない
それはとても役に立つかもしれない
最初に言うと、あなたはそれが好きではありません
あなたがオーガナイザーであるとしても、私はあなたを突然インタビューし始めます
ありがとう
それは変わりません
でも、あなたに言うことが心地よいです
あなたは私を知っている
はいはい
ありがとう
わかりました
ありがとうございました
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