友人の恋愛事情
Welcome to Kevin's English Room Podcast. Hello. Speaking of girlfriend. Yeah.
Remember several months, several months or years ago, I talked to you about my good friend. Yes.
Who's the same age as me. Yes. But has never had a girlfriend. Yes. But is trying so hard
to get one. And he looks, he seems very good. Very, you know, せいけつかん. And I met him.
Okay. The other day. With my wife actually. Yeah. He's still struggling, man. Still? He's still
struggling. Why has he changed or? He has not changed at all. Okay. Yeah. Well, he won the
problem. Yeah. He had to be. But yeah. Okay. Yeah. He's what I was kind of worried was that
he's kind of half giving up. I see. On even meeting people. Oh, because he kind of knows
that it's not going to work. Stop losing the confidence, faith, confidence and faith. Oh,
that's not a good thing. Yeah. What does he, what is he doing? Like he's still, I don't know,
like doing thing up and like meeting people. Not anymore because he's lost faith in it. Oh.
But he's still looking for it. But like, he's not, he's not, he's not, he can't like step up and.
Okay. Mentally? Yes. Mentally present himself out there in the dating app world. Oh, yeah.
What has he done for, I mean, challenged? Like, I don't know. Oh, like change? Yeah. Like,
I don't know, like face, skin care. I don't know. Like a haircut. Nothing. I don't know. I don't
think, I don't think anything has changed. Yeah. Did your wife said, say anything about him?
My wife said that the problem with him is that he cannot, he's very bad at showing interest
in the other person. I see. Yeah. Hmm. Like in a conversation? Like a conversation. For example,
so that was sort of like a, so it was me and him and I was like, hey, by the way, I got married.
He's like, oh, that's nice. And hey, why not? Why not have my wife come in? And he's like, oh,
that's great. I love me or what? Yeah. And that's how it started. And then I've been talking to
him about, with my wife. Yeah. How I have a friend who's like this and this and that.
ケビンの友人の態度
Right. And then, so my wife was like very interested as well. I was like, I want to
see what he looks like. Right. Right. And then she came in and we talked, three of us. And then like
after that, we're like, so what do you think about him? Yeah. And she was like, well, and she
said the same thing that I just said to you, right? For example, he never asked anything
about our relationship. Like he never asked how we met. I see. Like how we're like privately or like
he never asked anything about our like relationship or anything like that.
And she was like, well, I mean, it's okay. But like usually in this situation,
the friend would ask the couple of like how they, how we met and how we're like, and
was not one single question came up. Okay. Yeah. The only thing we talked about was
his, his, his, his romance life. I see. Yeah. There was never like a, like a, like a boomerang
question of like, how about you guys? You know, how are you guys doing it? And the things like
that. And I say, yeah. Is that like the general problem of his like, yeah, I agree. I agree. Yeah.
I agree. That's right. Yes. Yes. Yeah. In addition, in addition, when he's heated up,
when he's more comfortable, for example, when, when he's with me and him only a lot of like Gucci.
Oh, okay. Yeah.
So he talks, he talks only about him and he start talking about Gucci's only kind of. Yeah.
Okay. Yeah. That's not a, that's, that's, that's a. It's not something that, it doesn't seem like
something that he would show on like a first or second date. Okay. Usually on dating apps,
dating sites, you, you, you meet, you don't go into that much of a deep conversation.
You know? So I don't think the Gucci is happening, but still he may just talk about him and not
possible having a conversation. Yeah. Yeah. Maybe. Yeah. Yeah. I see. I I'm still looking
to have him on the show. Yeah. I still am. Yeah. Yeah. I'm not able to bring that up.
What does he know? No, about it, about like us talking on the show. No, no. She
友人を支える難しさ
tend to be talking about himself. Oh, no. Having kind of conversation. No, no.
See, that relates to the question about the course shoe. Oh yeah. It's kind of awkward to tell him
that, Hey, your conversations aren't fun.
Yeah. It's difficult. I see. It's difficult. Yeah. Yeah. I can imagine your situation.
Yeah. But as a friend, you want, you want to be a help for him, right? I would love to
be a help for him, but at the same time, I do want to be careful not to happen the same thing
with the Tencho. Right. Then I can be a bad guy if you want to, like, I just come and just like,
oh, okay. Like, do a role, you know, saying like, oh,
kind of, you know, kind of bad guy and just say things like, very straightforward.
We may fight each other and just, uh, could be, but like, yeah.
Yeah. Okay. Maybe that's a possibility.
Because you'd have to know me, you know. Yeah, that's true. That's true. Yeah.
Maybe the comment section could be the bad guy. You know, if we have them on the show,
you know, the comment section is going to be like, they're very straightforward. You know,
the comment section is very straightforward. They're going to be like, Hey, this is the,
this is your problem, you know, and they're very, like, they're very good at expressing.
True. True. So that could be a solution as well. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And then he'll like,
and then he'll look, right. He'll look at the video and he'll look at the comment section.
True. True. Yeah. That could be it too.
But what if there are like too many comments on it and just he will,
oh no, like too, too much amount of like, he's going to go into a breakdown. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
I don't want that happening to him. The world hates me. I don't want that happening to him.
We should have like a separate episode after the first one where we get all the comments
and then we'll read out, we'll curate the comments, you know, we'll select the comments
and be like, this is going to be the hard truth, but here are some of the comments you got. And
ケビンの友人の現状
then we'll talk, you know. That's a good one. We'll be a mental support firm. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
Right. But yeah, giving up is the worst thing. Oh yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I, yeah, I know.
Just an update on that. Yeah. Thank you. Yeah. Thank you. Actually, there are some messages
that saying they're curious about the situation of him. How's he doing? Is there any?
Right. So yeah, nothing, no big update, unfortunately. He's still, he's still trying,
kind of losing a little bit of faith, but still, you know, he's still, still trying, you know.
Because when you get to the thirties, right, that's a little bit, you know, if you're in your
twenties and you've never had experience with any woman, it could be like, you know, oh, maybe it
was busy or I don't know. When you're in your thirties and you still never had any experience
with a woman. Now the woman's got to be like, well, does he have a problem? What kind of problem
does he have? You know? That's right. So, yeah. So, okay. Yeah. So that was the update. Thank you.
Thank you for updating. Yeah. Yeah. All right. Thanks. That's it, guys. Bye-bye.