話のはじめ
Welcome to Kevin's English Room Podcast!
What's up with the...
Kevin?
I missed it.
It failed.
You didn't catch the train.
[laughter]
You gave up so fast.
Yeah.
The moment I pronounced the K sound, I knew it.
You knew it wasn't going to go well.
No.
[laughter]
[speaking Japanese]
Okay.
[speaking Japanese]
Really?
[speaking Japanese]
Oh, interesting.
Thank you.
兄弟構成による性格の違い
So I have a sister.
You have a little brother?
Yeah.
Well, that's already different, right?
Yeah.
[laughter]
So I'm a "chonan."
Right.
You're "chonan."
But I'm considered a "chonan," right?
Yeah, right.
I'm called a "chonan."
But I'm the youngest of the siblings.
Yeah, yeah.
I would say that the first one.
Right.
The first one.
You're the first one.
I'm the first one.
[laughter]
I'm the last one.
Last one.
Yeah.
You're the last one.
So Kake-chan, he has a little sister, right?
So he's the first one.
Yes.
He's the first one.
Yes, yes, yes.
How about Naruchan?
Does he have a...
He's got a little brother.
Older brother.
So he's the last one.
Second one, yeah.
Oh, no.
Does he have a little brother or...?
No, no, no.
Second one.
Yeah.
How about like Matsune?
He's a...
I don't think he has a sibling.
He has a sister, no?
He has a sister?
No?
Wait, maybe he does.
Yeah.
Like, if it were to be somebody, I think it would be a sister.
Yeah.
Like, from my image.
Yeah.
Or if anything, it would be a sister.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Or just...
Or just...
Yeah.
Or just...
Yeah.
Or just...
Yeah.
Or just...
Yeah.
Or just...
Yeah.
Or just...
Yeah.
Or just...
Or just a long guy.
Just a solo.
Solo, yeah.
He definitely doesn't have a brother.
Nah, nah, nah.
Yeah.
Nah, nah, nah.
Older sister.
Yeah, older sister.
Or alone.
What?
Or alone.
Or alone.
Yeah, yeah.
Solo or older sister.
Yeah, that I get.
Yeah, I'm not sure.
Hmm.
But yeah, it's not...
They're all random.
Yeah.
Don't you think?
Yeah.
They're all scattered through the...
Hmm.
Right.
Maybe that goes for girls?
Maybe.
Maybe.
Maybe the guys are just like "Ahh!"
Yeah, they don't just scare...
Just doesn't have that radar.
They aren't like just too insensitive to like feel the vibes.
Yeah, yeah.
The siblings vibe.
Could be.
Yeah.
What about your girlfriends?
That I've had relationships with.
Yeah.
男性が感じる兄弟構成の影響について
They were...
Their minds are random.
Completely.
Minds are...
It's kind of hard to remember if they have siblings or not.
Oh really?
Okay.
They're all random.
All random.
So, what's your answer?
Oh, they're all random.
So maybe we don't like care that much?
I guess.
Yeah.
I've never had that through...
Like I never felt any of that.
Like I never felt that like...
Like I never subconsciously thought that like a hitoriko or like chounan or like chojo or
like I don't know.
Jijou?
That...
I've never had that disturb my relationship.
Yeah.
That was never a factor of like can I be friends with that person or not.
Yeah, true.
True.
That never mattered.
True.
That's right.
Yeah, that's completely random to me.
So can our conclusion be that is something that guys don't feel?
Right.
That guys don't have radars for?
Not sure if it's like sexual thing, but at least we don't feel it.
Right.
Right.
At least we don't.
Yeah.
So we don't have radars of like, okay, that person seems like the cho-chounan type or
like he looks like he has a brother.
Yeah, he's a hitoriko.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
But never like an important factor of like getting closest friends.
Yeah.
Right.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Right.
True.
Like, you know, the ruden-su we do with some friends.
友人関係におけるパーソナリティとの関係性
Naru-chan is the last one.
Okay.
And Mario is the last one.
Okay.
And the other, Hisa is like a solo guy.
Okay.
And Kento is like a first one.
Okay.
And I'm the first one.
So it's like a...
They're all random.
It's completely random.
And you guys are all good, right?
Like you guys bond together well.
Yeah.
Oh, I guess.
Yeah.
I guess guys don't have them.
Yeah.
Yeah.
But all of that explanation you said about the Ludens members, that makes so much sense.
Like I get it.
Yeah.
Like I get it.
So you feel it.
Yeah, I feel it.
It makes sense to me.
Like there was no surprise of like, "What?
He's a polar one?"
Yeah.
Yeah.
All of it made sense.
So we...
At least we have some leaders to understand.
Right, right.
But yeah.
Yeah.
True.
Right.
Yeah.
Well, maybe it's different so that we're getting...
See that's another...
Friends maybe.
That's another topic.
Yeah.
That's interesting to debate.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
You know, we're drawn to people who are different.
Yeah.
For example, like they are only like first guys and like I'm the leader.
Dating Preferences
Right.
And guys fall.
I don't think they're gonna...
Right.
That's not...
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I remember you answering the question of, "Do you want to date somebody who's completely
different than you or do you want to date somebody who's similar to you?"
And I think our answers are just matched.
Yeah.
You wanted to date somebody who was completely different.
Yeah.
I was kind of drawn into more like the similar kind of overlapping kind of vibe.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Right.
And that was interesting to me as well.
True.
Yeah.
True.
Yeah.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
True.
But when I say completely different, I don't say that she's like the last Jijo.
Right.
That's not in the criteria.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Right, right.
You're talking about like how that person thinks and stuff like that, right?
Yeah.
How about this?
A mismatch of what you want to eat.
Like isn't that something that you ... I don't know if that's enjoyable.
Okay.
Would you say that it's enjoyable to have a girlfriend who you have zero match of like
...
How different is that?
Like if you want to eat ... Every time you want to eat American food, your girlfriend
wants to eat, for example, like a very non-oily, like I don't know, Japanese kind of like low
calories ...
Sashimi's, maybe.
Sashimi's, right.
You want to go on a diet or something.
I just want to eat soup for dinner.
Yeah, yeah.
Your girlfriend goes, "We're eating Korean today.
We're eating fried chicken today."
No.
Yeah.
Isn't that something ... Can you enjoy that?
That's difficult.
Yeah.
That's difficult.
Like the ... Yeah.
Do you mind eating separate dinners?
Together?
Like, yeah.
Same table, but different dish.
Can you live with that?
Yeah.
Yeah, me too.
Yeah.
I can live with that too.
Yeah.
But yeah, if you want to live together ...
Right.
Like food ...
That's a different story.
So like, yeah.
Yeah, like spending the rest of your life together.
Yeah.
It's always fun to dating and seeing differences.
That's fun.
Yeah.
But if you want ... Like if you start living together, that's maybe difficult.
Like foods are different.
That's right.
Yeah.
Or like the cleanness.
That's true.
Like, would be ...
Do you want a messy room or do you want a very clean room?
Yeah.
That's true.
Yeah.
All right.
True.
All right.
Thanks for sitting guys.
Thank you.
Bye.
