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Welcome to ケビン's English Room Podcast.
Hello.
You good? Oh, yeah.
The sound. What do you hear?
The cozy sound, maybe? I don't know. You mean the sound of the heavy-ass wind? No, is it...
This one. Oh, yeah, the drill. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. They're doing a cozy-ass thing right now.
I heard from that way. What is it? Yeah. Yeah.
So, um, in the last episode, we saw some comments on the podcast. Yeah.
For like a review things. Yes. And, you know, thank you for like five rated or like four star rated.
Gentle comments. I love that. Thank you.
By the way, that might
might not be out. Okay, because there was a little bit too sensitive.
So it might not be out.
So, well, okay.
Go ahead. All right. Tell me. Anyway, um, I we are we appreciate for
those who listen to this podcast and I'm sending us like warm, gentle comments and everything. So, yeah, so much. Mm-hmm.
So, um, my question was okay.
Including like good ones and bad ones. Mm-hmm. Good reviews and bad reviews, right? Yeah.
Well, not only like this podcast reviews, but like in general you are
like posting content. Mm-hmm. And you're
like exposed to, you know, yeah people, right? Public. Public. Yeah. Yeah, and I'm sure you got
comments, you got messages, you got, you know, what you got reactions from people
including good ones and bad ones, right?
And
my question is how
Do you got some like bad ones or like have you ever gotten like something terrible?
Oh, I mean, I I know you've got like many good reviews and that's why I'm proud of but
you know, yeah, I mean I haven't gotten like
Depressing. Mm-hmm like
It was like
those like
super negative, super harmful, super
mean, yeah, super
damaging
comments. I
either I
Haven't seen it. Mm-hmm, or I don't receive it. Mm-hmm, but
No
So you but I've got some like slight negative ones. Okay. Hey, that's not funny. We're like
It's not money
You're wrong in English there
Yeah, those yes, okay, but not like
Fuck you, Kevin. I hope you fucking die tomorrow when you wake up
That I don't okay don't or have not reached me. Okay. Yeah. Okay. I
Say so like, you know
That's when
one
Element when you like when you post something on it on the internet or when you're on
Somewhere and like be exposed to to the public. Yeah, so I
Maybe I didn't read it, but I haven't read it
But there are some like messages that how how are you guys dealing with those like now like negative comments?
You have faced those. Okay, you know
Huh, do you have like how do you do that? How do you do well?
I mean, I've never had trouble with negative comments to begin with. Okay, like even if I did receive it. Mm-hmm
Maybe it was you know, like I said at the beginning it wasn't as severe as like some creators get
Mm-hmm, maybe that's the reason why but like I've never it never really got me. It never really
It never really I don't know it's just like well, I mean
That's if that's what you want to say. It's fair. You can say that but like I
don't believe what you're saying, you know, like I
have to be the one judging if I should take this comment into me or if that person is just
否定的なコメントへの対処
Irrelevant yes, I have to really
Navigate that, you know as a person who receive comments, right?
So like if that's an actual constructive criticism or just painful
Hurtful comments or not. That's you do really have to
You know
Navigate through all these different kinds of comments you get right
And I and you know, we see all the time creators having difficulties with negative comments
Taking it personally or you know
In worst cases, you know just
Unfortunately take their life away before you know in extreme cases, right? That's very unfortunate and I think that's um,
It's very sad, but it is true that that happens, right? So
While it is obvious and
That the commenters have to really think about what they're commenting before they click that enter key
Creators also has to have that
ability to sort of like
Distinguish like navigate through all the comments as well. Mm-hmm. Yeah
Yeah, that's how you've been that's how that's that's the way I look at it. Yeah
Yeah
Right. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Hmm, but luckily maybe you haven't got
That severe one. Yeah. Yeah, I wonder what would happen, you know
If you got like like if the public fucking hates me
You know I'm hated by the public I don't know what happened
Right
But it happens sometimes, you know, like yeah, it does even if you don't do that
That much. I mean, yeah, you just for example, whatever. I don't know and it's suddenly like it's just gone crazy
And yeah, everybody on
It feels like everybody. Mm-hmm. Yeah, I'm sure it's not everybody but right he feels everybody hates is hating you
Yeah, right
Yeah
人間関係の摩擦の理解
Like in real life. Mm-hmm
How do you deal with with an actual human being hating you like like someone who you know, like your friend?
Okay, I'm hating you. Like how do you deal with that?
I just will basically ignore. Mm-hmm
Yeah, try to keep distant distance
Do you try to heal and fix the relationship or do you just
It's not like trying to fix the relationship, but well, I mean
There are many cases that why he or she is hating me and if I did something really bad and wrong
Yeah, then I have to like fix that, you know relationship. Yeah, that's obvious. Yeah, so I put aside that case
yeah, so what I'm
Thinking about was when I was elementary school. There were one
Guy who was in the same football club? Yeah, and there's no reason why maybe I just
Maybe I played good. Okay, and he played better than me, but I played
Well, not much like as him, but okay pretty much well
Okay, he kind of didn't like that. Okay, because he wanted to be the boss of the club
I see and then he started me and that's not the proper reason right from my end. It's not like
It's not good reason to hate me. Yeah, so I was let's keep this thing and he just tried to be better than him
Okay in any
Thing, you know, so you okay. So you took on sort of like the friction there you sort of a
Fought against it. Yeah, I didn't fight but I I want to be
The one who can show
What I can do, you know, uh-huh. Uh-huh. It's like
So those like hates is more like afraid. Uh-huh, right? So like I say, yeah, I wanted to
感情の変化
turn that feeling into like
you know
like
kind of
Get into like admire level. Uh-huh. So that he would like
No, you know hating me anymore, but like, uh, he has to like cooperate with me and like
Kind of
Like respect you. Yeah. Yeah, right, right, right, right. So that's deep as an elementary kid. Oh, yeah, that's deep
Yeah, but that was the biggest concern when I was in an elementary
because I love football and I love that team and I
didn't want to like physically file like
You know fight, you know, I didn't want to do that. Oh, I mean I was just afraid of it maybe but
Yeah
Yeah, I remember that I remember. Okay. Yeah. Oh, yeah
Yeah, I mean that was fifth sixth grade. No, it was like first second grade. Okay. Yeah
Yeah, yeah. Yeah, but that's the foundation
I guess everybody in the real life people hates me or friends hates me then. Well, first of all that not many
Times. Yeah. Yeah, that comes up, right? Yeah. Yeah, but when I sensed that
Slightly even slightly I don't want to
Pick that up and fight again, but like, um, I want to try
Turning that feelings into like respect to me. Oh, wow. That's the basic standard. I know
Yeah, if there's no reason to hate me, yeah, if I do something wrong, then I have to apologize and that that's everything
Yeah, I
Do not have that in me. Oh, really? Yeah, like the energy of turning that into like ooh, this has to turn into respect
My mind does not work like that. Okay
if somebody hates me, I
would
It's been a while since I've hated on so like
Looking back. Okay, so me too elementary
In America. I had this guy
Kind of like a bully ish kind of thing. Okay, and then
Came at me as well. Mm-hmm. Well, then we fought
Yeah, that happened and that that went away
Yeah, it wasn't like it wasn't like there was a like an obvious winner or something. Okay, we just like
kind of like
We got physical. Mm-hmm and it just that was kind of like a bond and in a way I guess okay
Yeah, I was there
Yeah, um, I
Feel like there's more times that I've hated to like I've hated more than hated on oh, I see
Yeah, but from both sides, you know, I hated people more than I've been hated on. Okay, like I'm the one that I hate
So like for example university, I think you know this you heard the story. There was this one guy
yeah, I just could not stand just
Okay, the way he is just I couldn't stand it. He was in our circle for like a like a like a month or two
Yeah, I think I know that that
Like he was yeah, he was it was a bitch
She was an ass like he was he's a fuck face and I just I couldn't stand him just being there
okay, the way he acted the way he stood the way he just
Communicated just everything about it was just fucking disgusting
I just I was disgusted by his presence. Okay. Okay, so I I told him like oh you told him
Because he was trying to be friends with me. Okay, okay, and I didn't like that. I was like, I can't be friends with you
Oh because I don't like you don't talk to me anymore. I'm so sorry. This is the end of our relationship
嫌いな人との向き合い方
Goodbye
That's bold
Yeah
But that feeling was just really strong though that I don't really get that feeling that person just had everything
So that doesn't he thinks don't usually turn out like yeah, it's really really rare
Yeah, usually it's more like I keep distance with this person like if I'm hated on yeah, like or like I hate
Yeah, it's like I just keep distance. That's all. Mmm. I just try not to show that I hate him. Yeah
Yeah, just keep distance. That's all right, right? Yeah
How was the conversation went after that I
Didn't have a conversation. I sent the message and I didn't yeah, I didn't give him a chance to sort of give a feedback to that
Yeah, I
Wonder what makes you I know. Hey him that much. You know, I really want to see him again like
Till like to analyze what we get to analyze what the fuck was up with him. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm
Yeah, I don't remember his name too. Do you remember his name? I do. Oh, really? Just tell me later. Yeah
I'm right. I mean, yeah, then show me like his Facebook or something and hopefully we'll have a picture. Yeah
Yeah, because I'm not I wasn't that deep into that that relationship. I just I just kind of he wasn't that
Deeply in the circuit, right? No, he was not just like a few months. Yeah. Yeah. He was still like tiptoeing like
Maybe here maybe here. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. He wasn't like fully like yes, I'm gonna enter this club. True
Yeah, so I think I've never like
Had a proper conversation with her. I don't okay. I just know him face his face. He's okay. I mean
Yeah, I would love to look at his face again. I would love to do that face
Yeah face to like, okay, maybe not the not so much as the face but like, okay communication style
His way of like living
Mostly his communication style in his like form of respect against other people
I say that really kind of gets me like I say how much respect a person has
Towards other people. It's really I don't know where this came from. But like it's a really
strong like trigger of mine
When I don't see respect in other people from other person from this from a guy
It really triggers me like I don't it's like it does it triggers me that's the tree. Yeah
Yeah, yeah, oh that's interesting
Thanks guys, thank you
